Thursday, July 29, 2010

what we miss and what we have

This week, we had the chance to spend some time with two of our nieces, my sister Jessica's two daughters. We made some neat memories with Nella (3) and Aleah (1), and we also experienced a catharsis of sorts.

It's as if we caught a glimpse of what we miss. These little munchkins are close in age to our Rachel and Janneke. Watching them hop, jump, yell, laugh, sing, and eat reminded us of what Rachel and Janneke don't do.

And I am not saying this in a sorrowful moment or in an attempt to draw pity. It's almost factual. For myself, I had a time to grieve again -and that was a good thing. For Emily and Sophia, they had a chance to do the things they wish they could do with their sisters. Not that they don't love spending time with Rachel and Janneke, but there was something special this week about loving and hugging little girls who love and hug back.

Yet, the best part? We love Rachel and Janneke all the more. And we learned that love and fun come in different ways. It isn't just about what we miss, but it's also about what we have.

Emily took this one of Mom and Rachel

Emily took this one of Mom and Janneke

Emily and Janneke

God knows the journey. And He blesses us even in our sorrow.

Another photo from Emily.




Anonymous said...

Beautiful words, beautiful pictures captured, beautiful girls!

Andrea Wiersma

Anonymous said...

Your words remind me of The Serenity Prayer

The Serenity Prayer
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.

Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.

--Reinhold Niebuhr

Trust in the LORD with all your heart
and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will direct your paths.

Proverbs 3, 5-6

Praying for your family today...

Heather said...

These are very moving and beautiful words Sara.
They gave me goosebumps!
Thank you for sharing your daily encourages us to find the good in all things.
May God continue to grant you and Ralph great wisdom and peace as you raise your girls.
You are in our prayers.